Readers are not spared distressing details: a severely autistic child smears himself with excrement, then flings it at his parents a family pet is killed gruesomely as a warning to a lesbian couple and their transgender child there’s a substantial list of parents convicted of killing their children-and who are given light or even nonexistent jail sentences. He argues that many children born “far from the tree” eventually find acceptance and even celebration among their families-but also despairs for those who deal with schizophrenia and those conceived by rape. He discusses such deeply philosophical and ethical questions as whether cochlear implants at birth are leading to the genocide of the Deaf community and whether parents of “pillow angels”-severely disabled children-should agree to medically stunt their children’s growth so the children can always be moved by loving arms instead of cranelike equipment. He speaks with sensitivity about children who find community-or not-with others like themselves. In the first and last chapters, the author speaks of his own life journey as a gay Jew in between he tells of families encountering the following differences: deaf, dwarfs, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, disability, prodigies, rape, crime, and transgender. This young-readers’ edition of the original 2012 tome is far shorter but follows an identical format. How do parents react when a child is far different from themselves-and how do those children cope with difference?

Far from the tree book andrew solomon